I recently saw a video from an asian lady on YT explaining the three types of asian women (which I think applies to all women). It made some sense to me especially with mongering. None of this is about "love" but about the transaction that many women go by. The title describes our role then the description explains theirs.
1. The Bystander - With these women that are the "beggar" so basically you trade money for sex. They get their pay and you get their body. There is no long term, this is quick and fast. The men usually stay in the motels when traveling (to Thailand or other SE countries).
2. The Taxi Driver - With these women, they will give you everything you want if you "drive" them to where they want to go every day. If they want to go shopping that day or to the beach-- you go without question and spend money on them. As soon as you say "today, I would like to go where I want to go" they will leave to find another taxi driver ASAP. Just think about this, as if you actually were in a taxi and the driver says " I will get you where you want to go but I plan to go my way even if it is the long route". What would you do? Jump out and get another taxi ASAP! It's not personal or emotional. It is a service and that is what this type of man is to a lady. These men usually might rent an apt or home in a foreign country (they are most settled in and not a tourist or traveling monger). The girls might actually go so far as to introduce you to their family and even have a child with this man, but as soon as the man wants to do things his way (even with a child) the women are gone! They go find another taxi driver to get her and her family where they want to go.
3. The Captain - With these women they join for the "adventure" of where this man might go. They are not in control of where they go like the taxi driver, but they go for fun or unexpected "adventure" of this situation. This is the rarest and generally does not last long. In this case the men own a house or a boat (usually very rich) and pay for the girl expenses (often their family too). This situation is also doomed to not last and fail.
What do you guy think? Which are you? Do Asian women fall into these categories in general? Does it apply to other cultures of women? I know American women like security of money! Especially once they get kids. They look for education and a "provider" and do not go with "dreamers" or unsecured risk taking gambler types for the long term. Most women are essentially "gold diggers" to pay for their lifestyle or help their family. This seems very true to me no matter how often you hear "loving words". It is all bullshit to get what they want or need. This is my experience in years of dating and mongering.
Thoughts?